If seeking to never be blamed for anything or fear of falsely accused is a sign of insecurity even inferiority. The behaviors that are attached to the actions have evidence of these.
Sometimes even subtle but they are there.
Dive in the Word and have your soul healed from the trauma of insecurity. See others as your peers and not your enemy. See others through the lens of God and not the walls that above been built around you to reject any help that comes your way.
May the Lord heal His people from fear of failing.
God bless you